Big Girl Opens Up: Looks Like I'm Pregnant for A Married Man

A few months ago, my best friend’s brother paid a visit to one of the top managers in the office I worked for. He didn’t know I worked there and was actually glad to see me.

He offered me lunch and we had a lovely time. When he asked where I stayed, I told him. I thought he was just being polite but you can imagine how surprised I was when I saw him at my doorsteps a few days later. He said he was in the neighbourhood to see a friend.

I invited him in and we ended up sleeping together.

Afterwards we both regretted it because he’s married with two young children, and we agreed not to say a word to anyone. The trouble is, I think I might be pregnant, and he’s the father. I don’t know what to do or where to turn. I can’t tell my friend as she’d never speak to me again. I haven’t told her brother either.

- A young lady Susanna sent this to Aunty Bunmi. Read the reply she got below...

Dear Susanna,
You have some very tough choices to make. Tell your friend or her brother and chances are you would break up a family and most of the people connected to this problem would turn you into the enemy. As hard as the fact is, you’re on your own. If you decide to keep the pregnancy, then you would have to raise the baby alone. Even if you decide on a termination, you would be on your own so to speak.

You need to go for counselling and consult wildly with close family to arrive at a solution that will cause you less emotional stress. In the meantime, take a pregnancy test before you take the next step.

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20-Year-Old Caught Having Se x In Aeroplane Toilet With Total Stranger… As Parents Sat Nearby

A British woman in her 20s was arrested after losing her temper with cabin crew who caught her locked in an aeroplane toilet with a man she had just met.

The apparently drunk tourist is said to have been handcuffed to a chair by flight attendants – to the horror of her parents, who were travelling with her.

She was on an 11-hour Virgin Atlantic flight from Gatwick to Las Vegas last week when she reportedly struck up a friendship with the man sitting in  the next seat.

They disappeared to the aircraft toilet and other travellers soon complained of hearing noises from inside.
The paper reported the incident happened on a flight from London Gatwick to Las Vegas in the US last week

The woman was questioned by police but released with a warning before continuing her holiday in the notorious Nevada resort.

It comes just week after an Australian was arrested for apparently mistaking the cockpit door of a Virgin Australia flight from Brisbane to Bali for the toilet, triggering a hijack scare.

Matt Lockley told Bali police that he banged on what he thought was the toilet door of Boeing 737-800 aircraft, sparking the terrorism fears.

Mr Lockley, 28, was later released without charge.

Last year, Virgin America launched a new service that allows passengers to send drinks, a meal or treats to fellow passengers in a move which many said encouraged mid-air flirting.

Virgin Atlantic said last night they do no accept bad behaviour by any passengers on board their planes

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Would You Change Your Religion For Love?

If it came down to love, would you change your religion?

A lot of people face this issue in their relationship, and it’s such a touchy subject so most people sweep it under the rug.  

The most difficult thing to do while in love is to leave your love for what you love.
When we’re born we don’t know what we believe in, our parents teach us and raise us to believe in what they think we should believe in so its natural for us to follow this same path once we grow up. 

I have a friend that is in a relationship with someone that has a different religion then her, she doesn’t want their future children to believe in what he believes in so she’s faced with the decision to stay or leave. 

What would you do if this were you? If this was me I don’t know what I would do, do I leave the love of my life because we have different views or do I stay and live a different lifestyle from him.

- DonTBone 

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